nvme-tcp: fix timeout handler

nvme-tcp: fix timeout handler

Currently, we have several problems with the timeout
handler:
1. If we timeout on the controller establishment flow, we will hang
because we don't execute the error recovery (and we shouldn't because
the create_ctrl flow needs to fail and cleanup on its own)
2. We might also hang if we get a disconnet on a queue while the
controller is already deleting. This racy flow can cause the controller
disable/shutdown admin command to hang.

We cannot complete a timed out request from the timeout handler without
mutual exclusion from the teardown flow (e.g. nvme_rdma_error_recovery_work).
So we serialize it in the timeout handler and teardown io and admin
queues to guarantee that no one races with us from completing the
request.

Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>